We’ve all been there. We suspect that our significant other is having rendezvous with individuals who we would not appreciate them rond-es-vous-ing with.
We have 2 options:
1. Let it go, maybe ask them about it, but when they tell us there’s nothing to worry about, you leave it alone until there’s more of a reason to worry.
2. Call me Elliot Stabler, ’cause it’s on like Donkey Kong. I’m getting to the bottom of this.
Let’s be honest…we’re all going for the latter. It’s on. This is it…don’t get scared now.
The latter goes one of two ways:
1. There is nothing to be found. Facebook documents everything these days and you know that your boyfriend/girlfriend is in no way smart enough to know how to delete anything. Even if they had deleted anything scandalous, Facebook has stored it elsewhere, and you’re creepy enough and smarter than them, and know where to look for everything.
2. JACKPOT. HOME RUN. You’ve got more Intuition than Jewel, you’ve found exactly what you were looking for.
Here comes the hard part… Now that you’ve found what you were looking for, what’s your next move? Do you confront them and let them know you were creeping? Maybe you probably “didn’t realize their Facebook was signed in” and you happened to come across these messages?
What I want to know is, once we have found that Scumbag McGee was being a cheating loser, why do you feel guilty? You have found what you were looking for but it is so hard to come right out and say, “Hey. Assface, you were being shady, I creeped all your shit and found exactly what I suspected. BYE.”
At the end of the day:
Is it okay to spy on your significant other?
What’s your next move when you’ve found the goods? LET US KNOW!
